The Military Spouse's Employment Pocket Guide________HOW'S YOUR ATTITUDE?

 

Your attitude may well become your most important asset in both work and life - or it may get in your way. Indeed, we consider it to be the first key step in conducting an effective job search.

Take a moment to examine your attitude:

  • Does your attitude show in what you say and do? Are others attracted to you in a positive manner?
  • Do you have a "can do" attitude that propels you to success or a "can't do" attitude that drags you down?
  • Do you start the morning by looking forward to having a wonderful day or do you dread getting up?
  • Do you make excuses and complain a lot or do you take responsibility for your actions?
  • Are you a positive or negative person who tends to attract negativity in your life?

Check the current state of your attitude by completing the following exercise. Indicate whether or not you primarily agree ("Yes") or disagree ("No") with each statement:

ATTITUDE
YESNO
1.Other people often make my work and life difficult.______
2.When I get into trouble, it's often because of what someone else did rather than my fault.______
3.People often take advantage of me.______
4.When I worked, people less qualified than me often got promoted.______
5.I avoid taking risks because I'm afraid of failing.______
6.I don't trust many people.______
7.Not many people trust me.______
8.Not many people I know take responsibility.______
9.Most people get ahead because of connections, schmoozing, and politics.______
10.When I worked, I was assigned more duties than other people in similar positions.______
11.I expect to be discriminated against in my job search and on the job.______
12.I don't feel like I can change many things; I've been dealt this hand, so I'll have to live with it.______
13.I've had my share of bad luck.______
14.Employers try to take advantage of job seekers by offering them low salaries.______
15.I didn't like many of the people I worked with.______
16.There's not much I can do to get ahead.______
17.My ideas are not really taken seriously.______
18.I often think of reasons why other people's ideas won't work.______
19.Other people are often wrong, but I have to put up with them nonetheless.______
20.I sometimes respond to suggestions by saying "Yes, but...,"
"I'm not sure...," "I don't think it will work...," "Let's not do that...."
______
21.I don't see why I need to get more education.______
22.I often wish other people would just disappear.______
23.I sometimes feel depressed.______
24.I have a hard time getting and staying motivated.______
25.I don't look forward to going to work.______
26.When I worked, I sometimes came to work late.______
27.The jobs I've had didn't reflect my true talents.______
28.I'm worth more than most employers will pay.______
29.I've been known to do things behind my boss's back that could get me into trouble.______
TOTALS______

If you checked "Yes" to more than six of these statements, you may be harboring some negative attitudes that affect both your job search and your on-the-job performance. You should seriously consider changing these attitudes since they are most likely significant barriers to getting ahead in work and life!

 

SOURCE: Adapted from Ron Krannich, Ph.D., The Military Spouse's Employment Pocket Guide (Manassas Park: Impact Publications), pages 6-7. Copyright 2009. All rights reserved. Copying strictly forbidden.